Wednesday, August 15


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Hari ini aku belajar dari kejadian yg terjadi saat ini..
Ga peduli berapa lama lo sama pacar elo,
mo 4 taun, 10 taun, atau bahkan 40 taun sekalipun...
When It's time to move on .. THEY MOVE ON!.
Example...
Man used to woman so much, even cover her debt, moving away from her fam's to be with her lover, He even threw away her future.
But now? In a quick glances of eyes .. The feeling dissapear.
So yes, People change .. and no matter how much they love u before .. you cant ever guarantee that they wont change.
Love changes, people changes...
And I think It's pathetic to crawl over someone who does not want u anymore..
I knew He doesnt have any responsibility over Me anymore..
So you know what is my conclusion? Huh ?
I knew...
No person will purposely have a change of heart..
At the point in time when he loves you, he really loves you..
But when he doesn't love you anymore, he really doesn't love you anymore.
When he loves you, he can't pretend that he doesn't.
Same goes.. when he loves you no more, there's no way he can pretend he loves you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you..
You must ask yourself if you still love him,
If you also don't love him anymore,
do not keep him just to save your pride.
If you still love him, you should wish him happiness,
and hope that he will be with the one he loves most, not stop him from it.
If you stop him from finding true happiness with the one he loves, it shows you already don't love him, And if you don't love him, what rights do you have to blame him for a change of heart?
Listen beb... I don't BLAME You...
Because I learn ..
Love is not possessive,
If you like the moon, you can't just take it down and put it in your basin,
But the moonlight still shines upon you.
In other words, when you love a person, you can use another method of possessing the person.
Let him become a permanent memory in you life.
If you really love a person, you must love him for what he is.
Love him for his good points, and the bad,
You can't wish for him to become like what you like him to be just because you love him.

If he can't change to become what you like him to be, you don't love him anymore.

When you really love a person, you cannot find a reason why you love him,
You only know that no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have this person be with you. Real love is when two people can go through the toughest problems without asking for promises or listing criterias. In a relationship, you have to put in effort and give in at times, not always be on the receiving end. Being away from each other is a type of test,
If the relationship isn't strong, then you can only admit defeat.
Real love will never become hate.

Because U R Keeper of my other half of heart

AlexiA...shakened at 8/15/2007 10:02:00 PM




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Remember....being in love is not a mistake,
But make sure you choose the right one who deserve it

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